Saturday, March 10, 2012

Destiny - Life's turning point

Life is always so miserable. We never gets what we want and what we think... It totally depends on destiny and luck. My understanding was we create our own destiny, like we are the one to decide our destiny. While making career we usually get multiple option in journey. However, option, we choose is indirectly result of our destiny. So, we should neither curse nor blame about it in future life. Sometimes due to right decision it may take to the glory without any spurious thoughts but still we never know what's gonna be next move by life. Have faith in u , Have belief in u , Have self respect and dignity in you. These are the basic terms to meet one's destiny or decide one's destiny. Always do what your heart says but think twice by brain before pursuing it you never know what may be the consequence of it. It's so interesting that it may give u appropriate hint about what twist your life is gonna take. How it will be beneficial ?.
Destiny the word itself has powerful meaning like how one can get what he/she deserves in his/her life . And it may be regards to anything like getting our loved one's or scoring highest in exams whatever it may be. it makes us believe that for every good deed there is always a sweet fruit. Destiny is like surprise for us, because we get the things without expecting our without thinking about it. It has very peculiar essence and little different type of excitement...

Sunday, January 29, 2012

how sentiments get hurt.........

Expectations


Why any person needs to talk his sentiments and why he is always scared to speak about his inner feelings…??? why he always think twice while opening his heart in front of any one and why he shares his secret with someone who really dear and mere to him.??? . The answer for this is totally dependent on individual’s perception or point of view. But on an average people’s are scared that their sentiments should not be joke to others and no one should laugh because sentiments can be anything which comes in heart . The most highlighting thing about sentiments is they come from heart and not from brain coz it’s sometimes illogical also. So, they are sharing to that person who is really gives some importance for us in their life. So, by being open and transparent to them we speak whatever we feel but sometimes that sentiments can also make someone bored n yawning since it may not much important for them to listen . Does it means their importance is bogus for us or they just least interested in us or for our talks and feelings. In life many people comes and we get jumbled with them but we never show our darkest side of our life to everyone they are very few and very special but again till what extent they fulfill our expectations . As they give us importance we show great love and affection to them and make them feel they are very lucky having us in our life… but the time comes in everyone’s life no one is constant for e.g. like, how standard 5th teacher is till for that year and in until we reach 10th we may come across numerous teachers . In the same way STD 5th friend who usually becomes our best friend can’t be our dear and mere best friend in 12th especially she is “girl”… so, we always scared and to express our views which are related with our life. Whenever we expect something from them it never gets fulfilled because do we have only a dear one in our life that doesn’t mean they will also have only us as dear one… as I mentioned in above statement it is totally dependent on individual’s point of view… life is really rocking and it never waits for anyone that doesn’t mean that we should leave loving and having fun but, yes it hurts a lot when our dear one goes away leaving us ahead… As we never has any option but its part and parcel of life… Always do what you feel but till at certain age limit because after some years in age of maturity people will call you mad if you do same thing as you was doing five to ten years back… Have faith in yourself look forward for better in life and move on but it’s always a sunrise after dark night and there is always happiness after a huge grievance. Although the phase of dark night and sadness ruin us but still it’s on us how to take it. ? And what’s next in life……